A black and white affair is typically a more formal event, so an evening gown or a formal suit would be in order. Look for other hints on the invitation, such as “tie optional.” Parties after dark are usually more formal than those that begin in the afternoon. If you are unsure, contact the host and ask whether it’s formal or semi-formal. You’re probably not the only person who isn’t sure how to dress, and it’s always good to have confirmation from the source. The black and white evening party is a way to have a glamorous event with everyone dressing up in outfits that cast an ethereal glow. No one will clash with anyone, and the guests will put all of their creative energy into style rather than splashes of color. There are times when a black and white event might not be formal. If it’s for a child or teenager’s party, chances are it’s not.
How to Dress for a Black and White Party
Honor the black and white theme by wearing what the invitation states. It would be disrespectful to show up in a purple ensemble, and the host might remove you from the next party’s guest list.
Don’t wear any color other than black or white. This includes handbags, shoes, and jewelry. You should stick to the classic diamond and pearl jewelry that are perfect for a black and white event. If you don’t have real pearls and diamonds, you can wear faux jewelry. With the lights down low, most people won’t have any idea they’re not the real thing, as long as the pieces are not too large. Men should pay close attention to the wording such as “black tie optional,” which means that they may wear tuxedos, but it isn’t essential. If they don’t have the means to purchase or rent a tux, a black suit is appropriate. Women should select attire from more sophisticated and glamorous materials, such as silk or satin. Cotton and cotton blends are better put aside for a garden party. Beading and rhinestone embellishment provide all the glitter a woman needs, as long as it doesn’t overwhelm the dress. Evening gown styling should flatter the woman’s best feature. Black and white are both such dramatic colors that they can enhance or overwhelm the person wearing them. Decide what you’d like to emphasize and select a dress that shows it off. For example, if you have beautiful shoulders, you may want to wear a strapless or off-shoulder gown. If your legs are your best feature, raise the neckline and show off some leg with a slit up the side. Keep the look elegant to fit in with the theme of the party.
Hosting a Black and White Affair
If you are planning a black and white party, use these tips for planning:
Start the theme by sending black and white invitations. Be very clear in the invitation of your expectations. Many of the old conventions have gotten lost through the generations, so your guests might not understand what “black tie” means. If you want people to show up in formal attire, state it on the invitation. Provide a phone number, email address, or another contact method for questions. Keep the decorations simple to enhance the elegant theme of the party. Low lighting is ideal for a black and white event. It casts an ethereal glow that adds a touch of magic to the evening. Use only black and white linens and tableware — silver-tone flatware ties in with the black and white theme. Serve white chocolate, dark chocolate, champagne, ginger ale, and other foods and drinks that go along with the black and white theme. Snap photos with an old-school camera using black and white film.
If people show up in something other than black or white, be gracious and don’t call attention to their lack of understanding, or you may embarrass them. They’ll know next time.
